In this episode of our podcast Steve and Colleen explore the themes of safety, trust, and the importance of surrounding oneself with safe people. They delve into childhood experiences that shape our understanding of safety, the significance of having trustworthy counselors, and the impact of family dynamics on our ability to trust others.

The metaphor of a 'glass ball' is introduced to illustrate the fragility of trust and the need to be cautious about whom we allow into our lives. The discussion also highlights the traits of unsafe individuals and the importance of recognizing these behaviors to foster healthier relationships.

In this conversation, Steve and Colleen delve into the complexities of spiritual abuse, the importance of identifying safe individuals in one's life, and the role of Christ in the healing journey. They discuss the attributes that define a safe person, the necessity of holding space for others, and practical steps toward personal healing and growth.

The conversation emphasizes the need for authentic relationships and the transformative power of forgiveness and understanding.

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Chapters

00:00 Finding Safe Spaces in Childhood

01:56 The Importance of Safe Counselors

04:10 Identifying Safe and Unsafe People

06:05 The Impact of Family Patterns on Trust

09:56 The Glass Ball Metaphor for Trust

18:06 Recognizing Unsafe Behaviors in Relationships

19:58 Defining Unsafe People and Their Traits

28:41 Understanding Power Dynamics in Spiritual Abuse

32:02 Identifying Safe vs. Unsafe People

33:30 The Role of Christ in Healing

41:55 Attributes of a Safe Person

49:51 The Importance of Holding Space

54:34 Practical Steps Towards Healing and Safety