Before having Transitions Expert and Prosperity Astrologer Elisa Robyn join Chelsea 17 minutes in, Chelsea talks about pride and why we win in life when we have less of it. Whether it’s extending an apology, acknowledging the motive and intention behind our less than becoming behavior, confronting our fantasy and finally meeting in real life, taking a chance and expressing romantic interest, or working extra shifts and side gigs to keep our lifestyle intact, the point is, filtering out the reality of who we currently are and where we’re currently at may make us look Instagramable but it doesn’t help us embrace our current circumstances or cultivate sincere connections.Then 17 minutes in, Elisa joins Chelsea to talk about the three lessons she learned on a 100 mile hiking adventure, gaining personal power, and prioritizing the life she’s always wanted over the life she already knows and has in order to transition out of a 20 year career after losing her mother and husband within two months of each other. Other gems to look out for:+ when the velvet handcuffs are so comfortable, it’s hard to take them off+ the secret part of you that’s telling the rest of you, you’re ready to become something more and do something new+ learning to not fight who you are or think you could become, especially in the early stages of manifestation+ sometimes odd desires is our spirit encouraging us to try on that desire next+ when you respect a true need, you walk more confidently within the world because you know you’re becoming who you’re supposed to be+ the vulnerability of seeing our parents as people can feel like a violation of their own privacy+ why the next time someone tells you you’re loud, you can just say thank you+ why “being on” or present feels threatening+ what someone might actually be saying about you when they say they’re not a deep person+ why being an “intelligent” woman may bring up a man's insecurity of enoughness+ the intimacy of being all in with your attention+ being “too much” for someone means you have personal power+ the fear of showing up and discovering that who you are is a mean, bad person+ the armor can come off, life isn't a battle+ how pausing can provide us the best direction of all+ managing your fear and keep it moving+ in the midst of grief, give people direction and tell them what you need for your life to work“Anger ... it's a paralyzing emotion ... you can't get anything done. People sort of think it's an interesting, passionate, and igniting feeling — I don't think it's any of that — it's helpless ... it's absence of control — and I need all of my skills, all of the control, all of my powers ... and anger doesn't provide any of that — I have no use for it whatsoever." — Toni Morrison__To connect with Elisa, visit her:Website: https://elisarobyn.comPodcast: https://elisarobyn.com/podcastsBlog: https://elisarobyn.com/blogInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisarobyn8131__Work with Chelsea: www.breakupward.com/shopChelsea’s website: www.breakupward.comSign up for Chelsea’s newsletter: bit.ly/tyhbletterInstagram: www.instagram.com/thankyouheartbreakConnect and send in your questions and/or letters viawww.instagram.com/thankyouheartbreakOr by email: [email protected]