For many survivors, leaving isn’t just about walking away—it’s about risking safety, stability, and even the roof over their heads. People often ask, “Why don’t they just leave?” without realizing how tangled the reality is: money, fear, kids, isolation. The abuse doesn’t always look like bruises; sometimes it’s control so deep it seeps into every part of a person’s life. And when every option feels like a loss, staying can seem like the only thing that makes any kind of sense.
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Sola Adenekan, award-winning documentarian and entrepreneur, shares how surviving domestic violence led her to launch Misiones Body Care, a business that empowers other survivors. She also ta;lsabout her work as a Housing Commissioner and filmmaker, using storytelling to spotlight injustice and drive change. Her award-winning film "Whistleblowers" reflects her commitment to truth and accountability. Through advocacy and art, Sola pushes for policy reforms and safe housing for abuse survivors. Her mission is rooted in healing, justice, and self-reliance. Stay tuned!
Quotes:
“The experience does not define the soul; rather, the soul defines the experience.”
“Oftentimes, survivors leave with nothing and are forced to rebuild their lives, but starting from scratch with nothing is a monumental task.”
“Entrepreneurism, for me, was my escape—to be able to gain my independence back.”
Resources:
Vegan Body and Lip Care That Supports Domestic Violence Surivors | Misiones BodyCare
Connect with Sola Adenekan on LinkedIn
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