My LOTUS Moments

14. AMP: When Guys Go Ghost


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Download Episode We've all experienced having someone go ghost on us or we've been the who's done the ghosting. Take a listen to how Travis shares a male's perspective on the idea and reason most guys go ghost. Key Take aways:
  • When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
  • According to Travis, men can be labeled as an intellectual whore or a cuddle b*tch
  • There is no woman that a man will be friends with and won't potentially have sex with
  • Sometimes he's just not that into you, romantically. Understand that and move on.
  • Regardless of age, people will continue to play the game of self interest
  • You cannot force chemistry
  • If a man is not where he wants to be financially or career-wise, he will not fully invest himself into a relationship.
  • There's never a good explanation for a person to go ghost
  • If a guy is into you, he will show it and you will have no doubts
  • Don't assume a guy will possess the qualities you have or desire
Timeline of the show:
  • :20 Introduction of Travis
  • 1:40 Hope shares listener's submission
  • 5:30 Travis shares his thoughts on the listener's story
  • 7:35 Travis shares an interesting theory of intellectual whore and cuddle b*tches
  • 10:31 Hope gets Travis back on track
  • 13:10 Travis discusses his story regarding "going ghost"
  • 16:50 Hope shares her story about ghosting
  • 20:03 Technology creates entitlement and anxiety
  • 20:45 Travis and Hope discuss possible reasons guys will go ghost
  • 30:22 Hope attempts to get Travis back on track AGAIN. LOL
  • 32:15 Should the writer have gone on that second date
  • 32:55 Travis drops some gems
  • 33:45 Travis and Hope discuss soul mates
  • 35:30 AGAIN Hope tries to get Travis back on topic. FAIL… Until next time!
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My LOTUS MomentsBy Hope Coleman