James Masterson MD idententified abandonment depression as a core BPD issue. There is no such thing as 'terminating treatment' with a borderline. The answer to ending treatment is to bring in more people and services so that the client will feel less dependent on one therapist to provide for all their needs. BPD are known to fall in love with their therapist. It can be helpful to remind the client about needing to "call your spouse" later as a reminder that you are not available for their fantasy relationship.  This week's video mirrors the intensity of an argumentative couple.