Everything from our personal history shapes how we function. In real estate this can cause us to ask questions about ourselves like am I truthful, why am I not reliable, how come I cannot tell my contractor that they are doing a bad job, why am I afraid to take risk? All these questions show up because of those moments in childhood, however right now you can begin to change that by acknowledging where those feelings come from and how you can change that feeling right there in the moment.