Karl and I talk about growing up in a white area (1:05), sexuality and masturbation (3:30), coming out to friends (7:05), Asian dad asks son to come out (8:15), mom disapproves of son’s sexuality (12:05), coming out to parents about self harm (13:45), queer asian discrimination (15:15), marketing (17:45), LGBT advocacy (20:05), dating (22:45), faking cancer to get your ex back (23:32), mental colonization (27:02), flake city (29:45), high school dating privilege (32:00), subtle asian networking (34:35), Asians meaning only East Asian? (36:30), Coquitlam is very insulated (39:15), divide within the Asian community (42:25), Asians are very racist (43:30), Asians in Asia don’t understand Asian Americans (44:19), subtle asian traits is our version of black twitter (47:28), Parasite (51:40) and more.