The word toxic has become a cultural buzzword, especially when conversations turn to masculinity and increasingly, femininity as well.

This week on Resident Strangers, the discussion continues as Steve, Rich, and Sarah explore what the Bible says about masculinity and femininity. Rich points out that even some of the men and women we encounter in Scripture aren't always intended to be models for us to follow. Understanding the difference between passages that are descriptive and those that are prescriptive is essential.

When the topic of "toxic" gender roles comes up, Steve suggests a more helpful phrase: destructive exaggeration. He unpacks what biblical headship actually means, challenging the misconception that it's about control or unchecked authority. Together, the team explores the dynamics between men and women and what true, God-honoring partnership looks like.

Sarah reflects on how these tensions play out in today's culture, where both men and women can be tempted to elevate themselves over one another. Ultimately, the conversation returns to the root issue: sin has distorted God's good design.

The episode also revisits the story of Adam and Eve, with Steve highlighting that blame often falls solely on Eve while Adam's failure to protect and lead faithfully is overlooked.

This is a thoughtful, balanced conversation that wrestles honestly with a complex topic. Give it a listen and let us know what you think! Next week's topic: Christian Nationalism.

Steve's sermon on this topic from January 2026

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