My LOTUS Moments

15 When Guys Go Ghost Pt. 2


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Download Episode "Throw that ish on a chart on the wall… and connect the dots!" Find out what Travis is talking about in the second half of When Guys Go Ghost… Key Takeaways:
  • How can you tell when someone is dominant or passive?
  • Men can tell how
  • Men "want it" but men want to be in the position to "earn" it.
  • Never allow someone who makes you feel insecure or humiliated back into your life, no matter how positive you try to make the relationship out to be.
  • Those who are willing to go ghost on someone, something inside of them is destroyed to where they lack the capacity to feel empathy for others, have any decency or feel the guilt of hurting someone else.
  • It takes nothing to communicate your needs with others
  • "You walk around effectively heartbroken but, you are afraid to admit at. It is a special open-ended kind of pain like a disease with no name."
  • There's never a good explanation for a person to go ghost
  • Play to win!
  • Closure doesn't require another person
Timeline of the show:
  • :22 Recap of the last episode
  • 1:15 Men's instincts
  • 3:37 Can you ever forgive and restore a relationship with someone who's gone ghost on you?
  • 5:45 Hope drops some gems
  • 8:02 Effective communication
  • 12:00 Quote from Tim Kreider's essay "The Anti-Kreider Club" in the book, We Learn Nothing.
  • 16:15 Travis get Biblical but, drops a gem.
  • 17:11 Do you believe the guy was into the writer?
  • 17:50 Kissing
  • 22:50 How to reach Travis
  • 23:15 Was there anything the writer could have done differently to have the outcome be different?
  • 26:00 Lesson Learned
  • 27:34 Travis ministers to us. LOL
  • 28:07 Travis' final thoughts
  • 29:03 Where there any red flags that she may have missed?
  • 30:00 We get distracted… OF COURSE!
  • 33:25 Hope's final thoughts
  • 35:49 Travis' SECOND final thought!
  • 36:30 Hope wanted the last word. Lol
  • 36:54 Travis tries to start a whole NEW topic: The Ladder Theory (look out for it on another show!)
Have questions, stories, or want to make a comment? Email us at [email protected] Resources Music: Bad Religion by Frank Ocean We Learn Nothing, by Tim Kreider
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My LOTUS MomentsBy Hope Coleman