The Business Fondle

154. MONDAY MINDSET: What would someone with a lot of options do?


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You have so many options in life and business: you just haven't realised it yet. 

In this episode, I'm breaking down why scarcity mindset makes you grabby, how to shift into an abundance energy that attracts your ideal clients, and why lowering your standards is the real problem killing your business growth.

If you find yourself obsessing over every lead, getting anxious when someone doesn't convert, or feeling desperate about filling your next workshop, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the mindset shift that changed everything for me and how you can apply it to your business and life right now.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why you're getting "grabby" with clients and what to do instead
  • How to stop treating every prospect like they're your only option
  • The dating app analogy that will shift your entire sales energy
  • Why lowering your standards creates crappy client relationships
  • The compound effect of showing up for yourself (even when results aren't immediate)
  • How to build visibility so ideal clients find YOU
  • Why your default mode matters and how to shift it
  • The action step: declare what you want and own your options

TIMESTAMPS:
0:00:38 - The question you need to write down: What would someone with a lot of options do?
0:01:50 - Why scarcity makes you grabby with prospects
0:02:41 - You have the whole world as potential clients (not just this one person)
0:05:36 - The mindset shift: Acting like someone with options
0:06:10 - You already have so many options—they just don't know about you yet
0:09:23 - Your standards matter: why lowering them destroys your business
0:10:13 - The YSL bag story and why you need to stay in your power
0:11:00 - How I'm feeling about 2026 and the compound effect of showing up
0:12:24 - Stop journaling about why it's not happening—go make it happen instead

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