Ken Blackman is a former Apple engineer turned Relationship Mindset Coach and sex and intimacy educator.

For over 25 years, he’s been helping couples co-create thriving, fulfilling partnerships and, as he puts it, a ‘gourmet love life.’

We had a blast chatting with Ken. In this episode, Ken explains why some relationships feel like “work,” how to cultivate an enduring spark in your sex life, and why he believes compromise isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.