What if the problem in your marriage… isn’t your marriage? What if it’s what you’re choosing to notice?

In this Valentine’s-season episode, Laurie shares a simple but powerful mindset shift that can transform your relationships — without therapy, ultimatums, or blowing up your life.

Midlife has a way of making everything feel louder. The identity shifts. The resentment you didn’t realize was building. The small irritations that start to feel bigger. The question of “Is this it?”

But before you make any dramatic moves, Laurie invites you to try something deceptively simple:

Change your focus.

Because what you focus on grows.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why midlife can intensify dissatisfaction in long-term relationships
• How your brain is wired to look for evidence that confirms your story
• The subtle difference between healthy awareness and chronic scorekeeping
• A 7-day experiment that can shift the emotional tone of your relationship
• Why this practice isn’t about settling — it’s about strengthening your mindset

This conversation isn’t about ignoring real problems. It’s about reclaiming your power in the dynamic. Because midlife isn’t just about redefining success.

It’s about redefining what you pay attention to. And that choice changes everything.

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