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This week, we give advice on a sensitive topic:
"My best friend from school is getting married later this year. Recently, I found out through social media that she has a bridal party and I'm not in it. This was surprising and hurtful to me, as she mentioned a while ago that she wasn't planning on having a bridal party or bridesmaids. I'm still planning on attending the wedding, as I've already booked my flights and scheduled a trip back to Singapore around it. I live in the UK and have lived here for most of my adult life, but I feel very sad and rejected. It's also making me question our friendship. Have I misunderstood our closeness? Did the fact that I don't live in Singapore play a role in this? I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm not sure. How am I even allowed to tell her how I feel? Or is that too presumptuous?"
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This week, we give advice on a sensitive topic:
"My best friend from school is getting married later this year. Recently, I found out through social media that she has a bridal party and I'm not in it. This was surprising and hurtful to me, as she mentioned a while ago that she wasn't planning on having a bridal party or bridesmaids. I'm still planning on attending the wedding, as I've already booked my flights and scheduled a trip back to Singapore around it. I live in the UK and have lived here for most of my adult life, but I feel very sad and rejected. It's also making me question our friendship. Have I misunderstood our closeness? Did the fact that I don't live in Singapore play a role in this? I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm not sure. How am I even allowed to tell her how I feel? Or is that too presumptuous?"
Send us your questions via our Google Doc
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.