Kinfolk

17. Refusing to be a People-Pleaser


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The reason most of have chosen to show up as a people-pleasers is because most of us don't see it as a problem, or haven't considered that we made this decision as a response to our trauma.

In this episode, Romika shares exactly why people-pleasing is a problem, and how to reflect on the time in your life when you decided to show up this way, and practicals to show up differently.

This episode includes:

  • A reference to the book "Atomic Habits" by James Clear
  • highlights previous episodes, "The Four Principles to Establishing Healthy Boundaries (Episode 2) and "How to stay out of Trauma (Episode 14).
  • Several mindset shifts to help process why you people-please and how to overcome it

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    KinfolkBy Romika Gunn