With my family's Polynesian background, it's common for us to tell everyone to take our shoes off.   Everyone, that is, except me.    I tend to walk around and wear my shoes still for one excuse after another, but ultimately it comes down to the fact that I don't take the time to take them off.    And I got called out for it.   "Daddy, why do you wear your shoes around the house but expect the rest of us to? You are not a man of integrity."   This lesson hit me HARD.   Whatever you say has to MEAN something and do what you say you're going to do by honoring your word.