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Today we’re talking about righteous victimhood - the mindset where you’re more focused on what’s unfair than on what you can do next (and end up justifying inaction).
And real quick - You might actually be right about the unfairness. That’s not the problem.
The problem is when staying right starts costing you your agency, your options, and your self-trust.
Here’s where we go today:
What “righteous victimhood” actually means in decision-making
The signs you’ve shifted from self-compassion into stuckness
The difference between validating your pain and defending your limitations
The three practical shifts that move you out of stuck and back into agency
Why you don’t have to choose between being right and being happy
If you’ve been stuck replaying what should be different, and you’re tired of feeling justified but not empowered - this is for you.
This episode will help you reclaim control, without gaslighting yourself about what’s hard.
👉 Links!
By Kirsten Parker: Decision-Making Coach for Overthinkers5
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Today we’re talking about righteous victimhood - the mindset where you’re more focused on what’s unfair than on what you can do next (and end up justifying inaction).
And real quick - You might actually be right about the unfairness. That’s not the problem.
The problem is when staying right starts costing you your agency, your options, and your self-trust.
Here’s where we go today:
What “righteous victimhood” actually means in decision-making
The signs you’ve shifted from self-compassion into stuckness
The difference between validating your pain and defending your limitations
The three practical shifts that move you out of stuck and back into agency
Why you don’t have to choose between being right and being happy
If you’ve been stuck replaying what should be different, and you’re tired of feeling justified but not empowered - this is for you.
This episode will help you reclaim control, without gaslighting yourself about what’s hard.
👉 Links!