Happy (anti?)Valentine's Day! In honor, this episode is all about some important advice that applies across all types of relationships: if they wanted to, they would. Read it, and read it again!! To start off today, we're telling you guys all about how Lauren's life has become a real life rom-com in just a few weeks. This episode title says it all: we're talking about effort. We get into valentine's day and how it's not hard to do a little something for someone. If they didn't, they didn't want to, and you should take those actions (or lack thereof) for what they're worth. Next, we talk about a specific situation Lauren just had with a hinge match that we know many others have experienced: a person who says they want to see you, but doesn't make effort to make plans to see you. We posted a Tiktok about this and got tons of comments and opinions, so we're getting into those and sharing some of your responses, including why this happens! This is part 1 of a 2 part episode, so next week will have the rest plus some more stories and experiences that further prove that if they wanted to, they would!