This Is For Us

19. No More Mean Girls


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In today's episode, I dive deep into the topic of drama, particularly within the world of women and teenage girls. As someone who owns an all-star cheerleading business, I'm constantly surrounded by females of all ages, and I've witnessed both the beauty and the ugliness of these relationships. I'm a staunch advocate for women supporting each other, but I also recognize the toxic "bubble" that can form, leading to gossip, rumors, and mean-spirited behavior.

I address those who are victims of drama, urging them not to give power to the perpetrators. It's essential to challenge oneself to rise above the negativity, to attend events despite the fear of judgment, and to remember that often, the issue is with just a few individuals rather than everyone.

For those who find themselves spreading rumors or being part of the problem, I call for self-reflection and change. It's never too late to apologize and make amends. I emphasize the importance of being a role model, especially for mothers and those in influential positions.

I passionately argue that being a "mean girl" isn't cool, and that true beauty lies in kindness and inner strength. I encourage listeners to protect others' names in their absence, to be inclusive, and to stand up for what's right. It's about creating a community where we support each other through tough times, without judgment or assumptions.

I also touch on the idea that we all have our own internal struggles and insecurities, and it's unfair to add to someone else's burden by being cruel. Instead, we should focus on being good humans, spreading love and positivity, and being lights in the darkness.

I call for an end to the "mean girl" culture and for a shift towards a narrative of empowerment, support, and genuine friendship. I want listeners to walk into any room with their heads held high, knowing their worth, and refusing to let anyone else's negativity define them. My hope is that this episode inspires you to embrace your value, to be a beacon of positivity, and to always remember how incredible you are.

I hope you love this episode xoxo

 

Highlights:

[00:01:03] Drama between women and girls.

[00:04:10] Overcoming the influence of others.

[00:08:34] Banding together against mean girls.

[00:11:56] Spreading rumors and hurting others.

[00:15:47] Being kind to others.

[00:19:20] Mean Girls and Self-Worth.

[00:23:25] Taking up freaking space.

 

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