You’ve heard the clichés: “Once a cheater, always a cheater” or “They just wanted sex.” But what if that’s not the full story?

In this episode, Christina goes deep into the real reasons people cheat—from unresolved trauma and emotional neglect to ego crises, conflict avoidance, and unmet needs. Whether you’ve been betrayed, have cheated, or simply want to understand infidelity through a more human lens, this episode is a must-listen.

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Timestamps:

00:00 Cheating isn’t always about sex

01:10 It’s more complex than just selfishness

02:50 Some cheat because they feel unseen

04:05 Childhood wounds can drive sabotage

05:40 Identity loss can trigger infidelity

06:54 Some avoid conflict by cheating

08:05 Unspoken sexual needs create distance

10:35 Cheating can mean disconnection from self

12:45 Both guilt and shame follow cheating

15:20 Healing takes honesty and effort

17:00 Cheaters must reflect on their why

19:20 Cheating shows deeper emotional disconnection