We develop attachment and detachment rhythms over time. You can see it while observing children on the playground. Younger children tend to run back to their mother for a hug or to connect than the older children. We often don’t know what is going on in the background of each other's lives. If we allow ourselves to stay present, curious, and truly listen without jumping into our own story is a beautiful way to give others space.

Staying curious is the way to be in service to someone else. Without staying curious, none of us get the attention that we need. Life becomes all about” the doing”.