Julie and Lisa discuss the importance of staying in your own lane in sobriety. What does that mean? Don't take other peoples' inventory, dont gossip, don't tell strangers how they should behave, don't tell other people how they should behave according to you! If you follow some simple rules like that you will have WAY LESS CONFLICT in your life. Most of our troubles were of our own making - that's what we learn in the big book of Alcoholics Anonymous.