16 May the Lord grant mercy to the household of Onesiphorus, because he has often refreshed me and was unashamed of my chains. 17 Indeed, when he arrived in Rome, he searched diligently until he found me.

18 May the Lord grant Onesiphorus His mercy on that day. You know very well how much he ministered to me in Ephesus.

REFLECTIONS

Written by Val Dewan

I do not know many people who are in prison. The people around me are quite easy to hang out with. Although there may be moments where I find hosting people or building relationships inconvenient or difficult, it is always easier to quash those feelings, because I really do want to build upon these friendships. When I first read this passage, I thought: I can relate to Onesiphorus and his actions in refreshing his friend Paul. But on reflection, I realised for the first time how incredibly brave Onesiphorus was, not just to be associated with Paul, but to openly show his loyalty and deep love for him.

Paul was in a pitiful and dishonourable state as a prisoner of the Roman empire, locked up without his friends knowing where he was. But more than that, Paul was facing execution simply for being a Christian. No wonder Paul praises Onesiphorus, a man who showed such kindness and faithfulness to him.

Not much else is described about Onesiphorus, but I am touched and inspired by his dedication in showing love to Paul. He was a friend who ‘refreshed’ Paul and searched for him ‘diligently’ – in stark contrast to all the people who turned their backs on Paul in his most vulnerable moment. Paul finishes by praying for the Lord to show mercy to Onesiphorus because of his faithfulness.

Even though I don't know anyone in chains, I have friends who are struggling or dishonoured by people around them because of their trust in Jesus. This passage challenges me to love and encourage them, and be willing to forgo comfort and convenience. This will look different for everyone, but I pray that we all can be like Onesiphorus – people who love God, and so love our brothers and sisters generously, even if doing so will risk bringing shame to our name. That shame will seem so small in the light of God’s great mercy when Jesus returns and we see him face to face.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Val is a member of our Fairfield Evening congregation.