What if the people society shames for wanting “too much” actually have something to teach us about honesty, boundaries, and self-trust? In this episode, Nyla and Cole unpack what ethical non-monogamy - and those who practice it - reveal about communication, desire, and emotional responsibility. This isn’t an argument for one relationship structure over another, but a bold look at what happens when we stop moralising desire and start relating with more clarity, care, and consent.

Here are some of the recommendations we make in the episode:

• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
• Come As Your Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski
• Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
• The Non-Monogamy Playbook by Ruby Rare
• The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk

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