When we chronically abandon ourselves and needs to appease others, resentment is bound to grow.  As Christians, our identity and value is given to us by God.  We can reduce of our performing and appeasing habits in exchange for acceptance because God has accepted us through Christ.  We've learned these coping mechanisms and have practiced them to make us feel safe and approved.  But, it isn't honest and doesn't express who we are, who God created us to be and it isn't honest love.  

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