Many therapists assume that it's their job to help the client change behavior. As a result many get stressed out and disappointed when their client(s) do not follow their agenda. However, the absolute reality is that it is impossible to change someone else's behavior. And that is because the client is in control of his own body.  In pdxi, we focus on attachment, bonding, and strengthening the connection. Here, the therapist has the ability to forge a better alliance... To prevent burnout, the most important thing to remember is to 'Stay in the Lifeboat'.  Ultimately the client only has the power to drain you, if you give him that power....