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We’re sharing the most vulnerable chapter of the Meant 2 Be Podcast so far: our real-life journey through IVF + surrogacy… and the moment we learned it could cost $130,000–$150,000. This episode is deeply personal, but we’re telling it because we know we’re not the only ones navigating health challenges, finances, and the pressure of “when are y’all having kids?”

Key Takeaway: The price is emotional, not just financial. And progress can look like patience.

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:48 Dreams of Parenthood

07:03 Rachael’s Health Issues

08:56 The IVF Process Begins

15:18 Marvin’s Physical + Sperm Freeze Experience

19:19 Pausing IVF Due to Finances

23:18 Societal Pressures on Women

28:40 Why not just adopt?

29:18 Surrogacy Process/Costs Explained

32:22 Exploring Alternative Options

34:02 What We Wish We Knew

34:45 Outro