Red flag or green light? In this episode, we put some modern-dating habits on trial and test the line between a green flag and a flaming red one: “daily grand gestures” vs love bombing, constant texting vs control, sharing locations as safety tool vs surveillance, opposite-sex friends, “I don’t like your bestie,” public jokes about private insecurities, keeping score in fights, one partner paying all the bills, and whether a prenup is protection or a problem. We land on context, consent, and changed behavior—plus the scripts we use to set boundaries without killing the vibe.  

Why this hits now: “Love bombing” and “green flags” are everywhere in dating talk, and couples are debating location-sharing and prenups more than ever—especially Millennials/Gen Z.

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Marvin’s 4th-grade math teacher made the class go around and name their crushes—and someone called him out. Rachael remembers her first crush, strict house rules (no dating till 17), and the choir-class moment when a new kid… bit her leg. From “how young is too young?” (their compromise: 13–15 with supervision) to setting curfews, boundaries, and safety checks, they map out a kid-safe way to start dating without losing your mind (or your phone).

They also get real about sex ed: what school skipped, what their parents actually did (condoms in a brown paper bag, anyone?), and the consent + digital-footprint talk they’ll give their future kids—ask, listen, respect; never send what you can’t take back. You’ll leave with practical scripts, green-flag “ask-outs,” and a reality check that readiness > a magic age.

Why now? Back-to-school convos are everywhere, and experts say early, ongoing chats beat “The Talk” for building trust and safety.

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Reddit’s AITA is internet court—so we brought the gavel. 

In this episode, we react to wild relationship dilemmas pulled from r/AmITheAsshole: closing an open marriage, a fiancé who cheated with a parent, and the eternal “should my partner pay rent?” debate. We unpack trust, infidelity, boundaries, and cohabitation—with humor, empathy, and zero fluff. AITA stories are surging across TikTok, YouTube, and podcasts, which is why we’re adding a grounded couples’ perspective you can actually use.

We also touch on why consensual non-monogamy shows up more in today’s feeds (hint: rising visibility and shifting attitudes) and why clarity around rules matters more than labels.

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Fed up with swipe fatigue—or still hiding the fact you met on an app?

In this episode, married Hinge success-story Marvin & Rachael spill Tinder dumpster-fires, Bumble first-move vibes, and why Hinge feels like Sunday-morning farmers-market shopping (until it doesn’t). From viral worst-date tales to the profile pics that scored the most right-swipes, they break down:

• smartest (and creepiest) algorithms
• red-flag openers & boundary rules
• safety tips that actually work—including “share your live location!”
• how to spot doom-scroll validation vs. real interest
• why meeting online is no longer a plot twist—it’s Chapter One.

Hit play for unfiltered laughs, practical dating-app advice, and a reminder that strangers can become soulmates—just keep your friends on Find My.

Vote for us as America’s Favorite Couple: https://americasfavcouple.org/2025/marvin-and-rachael-williams 

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What if you are good enough?

Hosts Marvin and Rachael reflect on the first half of the year—celebrating wins, facing imposter syndrome, and plotting their next moves together. From Marvin stepping into his new role as a Digital Marketing Manager to Rachael overcoming self‑doubt as she grows her modeling career, this episode peels back the curtain on real-life highs and challenges in love, growth, and partnership.

They revisit resolutions—celebrating wins and reframing what didn’t pan out—and share personal growth moments (“We’re not who we were in January”). They also unpack imposter syndrome: Marvin’s fear of not measuring up, and Rachael’s surprise at her own modeling success. It’s a heartfelt, unfiltered conversation about evolving together, leaning on each other, and planning intentional goals for the rest of the year. If you’ve ever felt like an imposter—or just want to grow with your partner—this check-in is your mid-year reset call.

Hit play, then vote for us in America’s Favorite Couple (voting opens Monday at 12 pm EST): https://americasfavcouple.org/2025/marvin-and-rachael-williams

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In this raw and powerful Father’s Day episode of Meant 2 Be, Marvin and Rachael open up about the men who shaped them—for better or for worse. Marvin shares the emotional story of growing up without his father, who was incarcerated before he was born and tragically killed in prison. Rachael reflects on being a pastor’s daughter and how that experience molded her view of love, faith, and family.

Together, they unpack how their very different upbringings impact their relationship, shape their future as parents, and define the kind of legacy they want to leave behind. From deep childhood wounds to lighthearted Love Island predictions (because balance is key), this episode is as healing as it is heartfelt.

Whether you’ve had a present dad, an absent one, or someone who filled that role unexpectedly—this one’s for you.

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In this episode, hosts Marvin and Rachael delve into the concept of love languages, exploring how understanding and adapting to each other’s emotional needs can strengthen a relationship. They take the love languages quiz together, discuss their results, and reflect on how their preferences have evolved over time. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, emotional connection, and personal growth in maintaining a healthy partnership.

Key Takeaways:

•Understanding love languages can enhance relationship dynamics.

•Communication is key to expressing love and appreciation.

•Love languages can change over time as individuals grow.

•Experiences together can be more valuable than material gifts.

•Regular check-ins about feelings and preferences are important.

Listen now and discover how embracing each other’s love languages can lead to a more fulfilling relationship.

Take the Love Languages Test with us here: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language 

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In this special Mother’s Day episode of the Meant 2 Be Podcast, Marvin and Rachael get personal about the powerful women who shaped their lives and love stories. From red flag warnings to first impressions, the couple shares how their moms influenced their relationships and the way they see each other today.

They reflect on childhood moments, heartfelt lessons, and those iconic “mom sayings” that now make so much sense. But it doesn’t stop at biology—Marvin and Rachael also highlight the mentors and chosen mothers who stepped in and shaped their views on love, identity, and family.

Whether you were raised by your mom, your auntie, your grandma, or someone who simply showed up for you—this episode is for the ones who gave us wisdom, patience, laughter, and love. 💐

Tune in for stories, laughs, and messages we wish we said sooner.

Drop a comment sharing your favorite ‘mom moment’ — and don’t forget to send this episode to a mother figure you love!

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In Episode 7 of the Meant 2 Be Podcast, hosts Marvin and Rachael dive headfirst into the fabulous world of RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 10! With the upcoming season premiering on May 9, 2025, featuring a record-breaking 18 queens and a brand-new “Tournament of All Stars” format, the duo couldn’t resist sharing their excitement. 

They kick things off with a hilarious and hypothetical debate: Could 100 men take down a gorilla? The conversation then transitions into a spirited fantasy draft of their favorite drag queens, analyzing strengths, weaknesses, and making bold predictions for the upcoming All Stars season.

From discussing the artistry of drag to proposing fun concepts like an all-villain season, Marvin and Rachael’s banter is filled with humor, insights, and a deep appreciation for the drag community. Whether you’re a die-hard Drag Race fan or just looking for a good laugh, this episode has something for everyone.

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In this episode of the Meant 2 Be Podcast, Marvin and Rachael share the exciting news of their feature in Orlando Voyager magazine and embark on a journey of deeper connection by playing the game ‘We’re Not Really Strangers.’ Through thought-provoking questions, they explore themes of perception, connection, and reflection, offering insights into their relationship dynamics, personal growth, and the importance of open communication.

Key Highlights:

•Announcement of their Orlando Voyager magazine feature.

•Engaging gameplay of ‘We’re Not Really Strangers’ to deepen their bond.

•Discussions on personal growth, communication, and relationship dynamics.

•Reflections on their journey together and aspirations for the future.

Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod).