Rapper, songwriter, and producer Bafo Joseph aka "Voice of the Underdog" joins Chelsea 22:30 minutes in to talk about the tension of having the girl yet needing the space and time to go all in on oneself. Some may call it selfish or ambitious, enlightened or zoned in with blind faith, but Bafo discusses the hurdle of his long distance relationship and the motivation behind his career in a way that provides clarity surrounding a hot question, "Can one have it all?"

He discusses dating to marry, where our love languages come from, his father's take on partnership, his mother's life-enhancing instinct to instill confidence, humility, forgiveness and initiative in him, the pain of divorce and watching your sisters be the one to bond with your father, and how the chip on his shoulder is the need for representation, that is, to not look the other way while his home country of South Sudan is neglected by the world.

To connect with Bafo, visit his:

Website: https://bafojoseph.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bafojoseph
Twitter: https://twitter.com/bafojoseph
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