Midlifing

216: Men talking about how they were feeling (Part 2 of 2)


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Lee and Simon continue their conversation with Matthew Onarheim-Smith about his experiences of depression.

Apologies for Simon's mic level.

Things covered: Agency and depression, ketamine treatment (not officially approved for depression), the patterns of depression, combined with talk therapy, failure, shame and hope, Thich Naht Hahn and hope, out of body experiences, living with depression (or chronic pain), acceptance, Uroskolen, bringing yourself to the feelings you want to run away from, the narratives we tell ourselves, not being our thoughts, others hearing our stories, buying into our personal stories, seeking help, interbeing, despair that is shared, not knowing the feeling (of depression), seeking solitude, Matthew's generosity and gentility, how best to help, more on seeking help.
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Related links (and necessary corrections):

  • coping with depression: https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/tips-and-support/cope-with-depression/
  • Self-care for depression: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/depression/self-care/
  • Mental Health Foundation: https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/a-z-topics/depression
  • men and depression: https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/a-z-topics/men-and-mental-health
  • Matthew's "Moving Dad" YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@amovingdad1310
  • Matthew's "Moving Dad" Instagram channel: https://www.instagram.com/amovingdad
  • Uroskolen https://www.uroskolen.no/

Get in touch with Lee and Simon at [email protected].

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MidlifingBy Lee Miller and Simon Ellis

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