February 17, 2020

[219] Are You your own Worst Enemy?

16 minutes

There are endless challenges on the road to building a successful handmade business. But have you ever wondered if the biggest roadblock is actually… you?

In this episode I talk about a number of the most common roadblocks to success – things like money, time, and knowledge – and how you might be self-sabotaging yourself via excuses – telling yourself you don’t have enough of any of the above… when in fact, you do.

You might be surprised by how little you need to get started – and that if you just switch your perspective, it might be all that’s needed to move forward.

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You’re passionate. You’re dedicated. You know you want to make this happen. But you just aren’t sure if you’re doing all the right things, in the right order.

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What would that mean to you? What difference would it make to your life?

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Highlights from this episode:

Sure, confidence breeds success… but success can breed confidence, too.

Think back to the last time you learnt something new. Did you feel trepidatious about it at first? When did that change? Probably the first time you got it RIGHT – and got a burst of confidence. Because if you can do it once, you can do it again, right?

Most makers have never run a business before. They’re so afraid of not ‘doing it right’ that they never try at all.

Envision yourself like a kid learning to walk. If they gave up after the first time they fell down, they’d never learn!

Repeat after me – ‘I will fail. I will make mistakes. And that’s not only okay – it’s necessary’.

Seriously. Mistakes and failures are an integral part of how we learn. It’s how you get feedback. It’s how a lesson sticks in your mind.

Courage is feeling the fear and doing something anyway – not being free of fear.

Courage is also like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it becomes.

Stop looking outside of yourself for the confidence to start.

Only you have the power to click that button and open your shop. No-one else is going to do it for you.

Do some fear-setting (Tim ferris vid: https://youtu.be/5J6jAC6XxAI) “How can we overcome self-paralysis and take action? Tim Ferriss encourages us to fully envision and write down our fears in detail, in a simple but powerful exercise he calls “fear-setting.” Learn more about how this practice can help you thrive in high-stress environments and separate what you can control from what you cannot.”

This is based on the stoic philosophy of ‘the circle of control’ – much like the Serenity Prayer “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.”

Literally write down ALL your fears about what could go wrong. Everything from ‘my spouse might not take me seriously’ to ‘my business could cause us to lose our house’ – no matter how unlikely, if you have a fear lurking in your subconscious, this process will help you to bring it into the sunlight, where it can be properly examined.

THEN, you can make a list of how to prevent these things. Or, failing that, how to repair the damage if it happens.

THEN… you do another chart. What’s the cost of inaction in 3, 6, 12 months and beyond if you DON’T start?

You’ll have your own things here, but one I can give you right now.

Imagine you don’t start, and you stumble across this video/podcast again the same time next year – or even in 5 years time. And you’ve never even started?

How would you feel?

Now flip the script.

Imagine you DO start. Today, this week, this month.

Then you find this video in a year, 2 years, 5 years… how would you feel?

Your answer will tell you which direction you need to go.

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By Jess Van Den

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