Let's talk about the unconscious patterns that might be sabotaging your relationships in today's episode. It’s not about shame, it’s about ownership. From unspoken expectations to emotional hijacking and trauma-driven “gut feelings,” Christina walks you through the real reasons love might keep slipping through your fingers, and how to finally break the cycle.

If you’ve ever said “they just don’t get me” or felt like you’re always the one chasing love that never lands, this one’s for you! Tune in now!

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00:00 Intro

01:30 It’s easy to point fingers, but what if it’s you repeating the same patterns?02:46 Stop expecting psychic partners: Love is built on communication, not energy reading

04:24 Relationship red flag #1: Loving someone for their potential

06:23 Red flag #2: Shutting down emotionally to control the narrative

08:03 Red flag #3: Hijacking the emotional climate of the relationship

09:09 Personal story: When love still protects toxicity

11:08 Red flag #4: Mistaking anxiety for intuition

14:10 Trauma vs. truth: How to know if your gut is real or reactive

15:20 Red flag #5: Keeping a receipt of every mistake

16:57 Red flag #6: Everyone knows your relationship drama—except your partner

18:24 Are you unconsciously sabotaging intimacy by trying to protect yourself?19:55 The breakthrough: Loving with more responsibility

20:35 Reflective questions to build emotional safety

20:45 Coaching offers