There was a time when I believed that if I could just control the outcome—say the right thing, explain it better, try harder—everything would finally get better.But the harder I tried to force the situation, the worse it became.In this video, I talk about the hidden cost of trying to control what we can’t control, and why healing often begins when we finally let go. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean approving of what happened. It means choosing peace over constant tension.When you stop forcing outcomes, your nervous system settles, your thinking becomes clearer, and life begins to move again—often in ways you couldn’t have planned.This video is for anyone who feels stuck, exhausted, or trapped in a cycle of trying to fix something that refuses to change.Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do isn’t trying harder…it’s letting go.☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/❋ Become a channel member! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join📱Text "DSDLIVE" to 1-844-598-0012 for text notifications🏕Camping Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTJroZvhxsDDjLi_kf9gd6A⚠️DISCLAIMER - Links used in this description are affiliate links and if used a small commission will help support this channel. Use of these links do not change the cost of the items purchased.⚠️DISCLAIMER - I am not a therapist, licensed counselor, or attorney. My thoughts are my own opinions from my personal experience. You should consult a professional when you are changing your treatment or making legal decisions. This channel and companion website are for informational purposes only. 📨 Send Mail To:Duane DSDP.O. Box 225Edwards, CA 93523📨Email To: [email protected]🕸Website: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com🎙Podcast: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/podcast/☎ Coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/🕸DSD Discord - https://discord.gg/hn9jE9x#DSD