Project Loving Myself

224: The Power of the Ask: If You Don’t Ask, You’ll Keep Settling


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🎙️ What if the real reason you’re not getting what you want… is because you’re too scared to ask for it?


This week on Project Loving Myself, Sanaiyah is dishing out a reality check for every people-pleaser, perfectionist, and “I’ll just wait and see” kind of gal who’s been quietly settling instead of boldly claiming what’s rightfully hers. Because newsflash: the universe isn’t your mind reader, babe it’s your mirror.


If asking makes you feel like you’re too much, consider this your permission slip to rewrite the narrative. We’re breaking up with “good girl” conditioning and making space for what you actually want and fully deserve. Yes, even if that means asking for more money, more love, more space, more respect... or just more fries with your order (because duh, you deserve those too).


💡 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✨ Why being “deserving” isn’t enough if you’re not willing to say it out loud

✨ How fear of asking is really fear of being seen and what to do about it

✨ The sneaky ways you’re settling (and calling it patience or humility)

✨ How to turn asking into your most magnetic, self-loving move yet

✨ Why clarity, not hustle, is your new power tool


💖 Ready to make your big ask?

✔️ Grab the Success Blocks Checklist to spot the sneaky beliefs sabotaging your shine

🧠 Book a LIfe Clarity Call and stop tiptoeing around your own worth

💌 Take the Love Blocks Quiz and unlearn those patterns that keep you playing small


🎙️ Subscribe, Share, and Tag Us

If this episode had you shouting “YES” in your head (or your car, we don’t judge), pass it on.

Tag @projectlovingmyselfpodcast and @sanaiyahgurnamal and tell us what you’re finally ready to ask for.


Because the dream doesn’t land in your lap just because you were nice.

It lands when you speak up, show up, and say, “I want this. I’m ready.”

Say it. Share it. Claim it.

Your ask is your activation.

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