This is a juicy one. I give my two cents on y'alls turn-ons and turn-offs while dating. I also give mine at the end! Communication is key, and honestly expected. It's also more than just speaking, it's understanding too. A guy having a house plant or two is a green flag (pun totally intended). Have ambition, a goal, a passion...something! Do you think the guy should pay for the first date? Consistency is hot, vulnerability is sexy. Confidence is appreciated, just don't be obnoxious. Also, just be nice to the waiters y'all it's not that hard.