In this episode, we take a critical look at Josh Harris’s controversial book I Kissed Dating Goodbye. The book, which became a cornerstone of the purity culture movement, promoted courtship over dating and shaped the relationship beliefs of many young Christians. We explore the long-term impact of its teachings on relationships, sexuality, and personal growth, and discuss where Harris’s ideas fell short. Join us as we unpack the harmful consequences of the book’s message and why it’s important to move beyond rigid dating frameworks.

Content warning: brief mention of sexual assault.

Topics: I Kissed Dating Goodbye, Josh Harris, purity culture, dating advice, relationship critique, Christian courtship, relationship beliefs, dating culture, critiquing purity culture.