In this no-fluff, truth-bomb-packed episode, Christina dives into why some women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men and what it actually means to be a high-value woman.

If you’ve ever been ghosted, breadcrumbed, or left wondering why he won’t commit, this one’s for you. Christina unpacks the difference between the “pick me” mindset and the self-rooted, magnetic energy of a whole-value woman.

This episode is your permission slip to stop auditioning and start directing.

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Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction
01:18 – Pick me vs. high-value woman
02:08 – Accepting crumbs = mistaking connection
03:15 – Dropping standards to stay liked
04:10 – The real issue: not being enough for you
05:00 – Meredith Grey moment + pick me cringe
06:26 – Rooted > rigid: setting real standards
07:24 – Layaway vs. Buy Now energy
08:05 – Christina’s dating story
09:19 – Wholeness > neediness
10:25 – Dating multiple men with integrity
11:28 – Observe, don’t push
12:06 – Plot twist: her now-partner said no
12:36 – Walking away with self-worth
13:24 – Consistency > chemistry
14:29 – Covert pick me girl feels
15:14 – You’re the director, not the auditionee
15:50 – Outro