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Before you redownload dating apps or—worse—text your ex, ask yourself the question most people skip: "Am I truly ready to date again?"
In this episode, we're going to talk about the often-ignored signs you're not ready to date—and what real readiness actually looks like. This isn't about blaming or shaming. It's about protecting your peace, rebuilding your foundation, and dating from a place of confidence and clarity instead of trauma and fear.
Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0
Let's connect:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction
01:20 – Don’t re-download the apps just yet—take a pause
03:05 – Dating readiness = protection, not perfection
04:12 – Why we rush to date and what monkey-branching really is
05:25 – The importance of knowing who you are before dating
06:35 – 6 signs you’re not ready to date begin
06:47 – #1: You're afraid to express wants and needs
09:04 – #2: You're afraid to ask the hard questions
12:10 – #3: You notice red flags but stay anyway
13:54 – #4: You attach fast and spiral often
15:01 – #5: You're dating to prove something
16:41 – #6: Your self-worth depends on their attention
18:13 – What being ready to date actually looks like
19:56 – Readiness = capacity (not perfection)
20:45 – Recent client win
21:30 – Outro
Before you redownload dating apps or—worse—text your ex, ask yourself the question most people skip: "Am I truly ready to date again?"
In this episode, we're going to talk about the often-ignored signs you're not ready to date—and what real readiness actually looks like. This isn't about blaming or shaming. It's about protecting your peace, rebuilding your foundation, and dating from a place of confidence and clarity instead of trauma and fear.
Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0
Let's connect:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction
01:20 – Don’t re-download the apps just yet—take a pause
03:05 – Dating readiness = protection, not perfection
04:12 – Why we rush to date and what monkey-branching really is
05:25 – The importance of knowing who you are before dating
06:35 – 6 signs you’re not ready to date begin
06:47 – #1: You're afraid to express wants and needs
09:04 – #2: You're afraid to ask the hard questions
12:10 – #3: You notice red flags but stay anyway
13:54 – #4: You attach fast and spiral often
15:01 – #5: You're dating to prove something
16:41 – #6: Your self-worth depends on their attention
18:13 – What being ready to date actually looks like
19:56 – Readiness = capacity (not perfection)
20:45 – Recent client win
21:30 – Outro