Dating Déjà vu

25 | Are You Really Ready to Date?


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Before you redownload dating apps or—worse—text your ex, ask yourself the question most people skip: "Am I truly ready to date again?"

In this episode, we're going to talk about the often-ignored signs you're not ready to date—and what real readiness actually looks like. This isn't about blaming or shaming. It's about protecting your peace, rebuilding your foundation, and dating from a place of confidence and clarity instead of trauma and fear.


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Timestamps:

  • 00:00 – Introduction

  • 01:20 – Don’t re-download the apps just yet—take a pause

  • 03:05 – Dating readiness = protection, not perfection

  • 04:12 – Why we rush to date and what monkey-branching really is

  • 05:25 – The importance of knowing who you are before dating

  • 06:35 – 6 signs you’re not ready to date begin

  • 06:47 – #1: You're afraid to express wants and needs

  • 09:04 – #2: You're afraid to ask the hard questions

  • 12:10 – #3: You notice red flags but stay anyway

  • 13:54 – #4: You attach fast and spiral often

  • 15:01 – #5: You're dating to prove something

  • 16:41 – #6: Your self-worth depends on their attention

  • 18:13 – What being ready to date actually looks like

  • 19:56 – Readiness = capacity (not perfection)

  • 20:45 – Recent client win

  • 21:30 – Outro

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