Everyone’s love language is quality time, just be present and intentional with your time. Take social cues, not everyone loves physical touch (especially on a first date). Don’t buy your way out of trouble with gifts, it doesn’t replace your shortcoming. Do the act of service because you want to make the other person’s life easier, not because you want to use it as leverage. Selfless sex is the best sex, by the way. Words of affirmation…oof. I'm shook and proud that most of my IG followers have had the "love languages talk" with their partner. Romantic relationships can survive if love languages don't align, IF both partners are willing to communicate their way through it. 

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