How do you teach stranger danger to autistic kids — without creating fear?

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, Shannon Urquiola dives into a topic so many parents worry about but rarely feel confident navigating. Inspired by a question from a follower, Valencia Shannon, this episode explores what “stranger danger” really looks like for autistic children and why traditional advice often falls short.

Shannon walks you through:

• Why autistic kids experience safety, fear, and impulse control differently
• How to teach safe vs. unsafe situations instead of relying on fear-based messaging
• Real life scenarios you can practice with your child in public, at school and online
• The very real dangers of online gaming, social platforms and sextortion
• Why supervision and monitoring are not about control — they're about protection

Shannon also shares personal stories about her son Jordan, including why, at 29, safety planning and supervision are still necessary due to impulse control and lack of fear — and how meeting your child where they are is not failure, it’s love.

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This episode is compassionate, practical, and honest — because teaching safety doesn’t have to come from fear. It comes from preparation.

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