Welcome back to What to Say & How to Say It! Today we’re tackling a surprising truth: your well-meaning help might be damaging your marriage. We’ll show you two simple, powerful tools to avoid that. Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org to find out if you’re ready to mentor other couples—or if your own relationship needs a tune-up. Licensed counselor Kyle Hargrove joins us to unpack the difference between helping and hearing—and why jumping in to fix things often backfires. From car-buying gone wrong to emotional misfires, we share real stories, real tools, and how validation—not advice—is the real game-changer.