Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It – the podcast that helps you fix your marriage! Join hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner as they tackle the thought-provoking topic: "Is self-love or self-respect selfish?"

In this episode, we explore the fine line between self-love and selfishness from a Christian perspective. How do self-care and dying to oneself, as taught in the Bible, coexist? What does it mean to navigate relationships with self-respect while staying rooted in Christ-like values?

We share powerful stories, including how prioritizing self-respect can transform relationships, and offer practical insights on setting boundaries and expressing needs clearly. Plus, we reflect on the cultural confusion around self-love and the role of faith in guiding these choices.

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In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, we're diving into the buzzword authenticity—what does it actually mean, and how can it transform your relationships? Join Nina and Kyle as they unpack the true essence of being authentic in relationships, explore the challenges of intimacy, and share practical tips for growth.

Discover how self-reflection, vulnerability, and faith play key roles in fostering authentic connections. Don't forget to visit greaterimpact.org to take our marriage assessment and access your free guide on how to stop walking on eggshells. Let's get real—starting today!

In this episode of "What to Say and How to Say It," Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into practical, faith-based strategies for navigating conflict and building connection in marriage. Learn how to become winsome in your communication, even in tough situations, and discover how these principles can transform not only your marriage but also your relationships with children, coworkers, and others.

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Welcome to today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It! 🎙️ I’m joined by my favorite licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into a topic that challenges marriages everywhere: "Truth and Transparency"—and how these impact your relationship.

We’re exploring the tricky dynamics of honesty:

• When is telling the truth healing, and when can it cause harm?
• How do we navigate transparency in ways that build trust without unnecessarily wounding our spouse?
• Why are we, as a culture, so prone to dodging honesty—often without realizing it?

The truth can set us free, but it requires wisdom, timing, and grace. This episode will give you insight into understanding the role of truth in your marriage and practical ways to communicate effectively without blowing things up.

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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you transform your Christian marriage! Today, we’re tackling a tough but crucial topic: 4 things you need to know when trust is broken in your relationship.

Why is this even a topic for Christian marriages? Because, like everyone else, we face struggles—but with God’s help, we can heal and rebuild.

Join our host and licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into understanding broken trust, its challenges, and how to move forward in a way that honors God and strengthens your marriage.

💡 Key Topics Covered:

• What happens when forgiveness doesn’t mean immediate trust.
• The role of confirmation bias in damaged relationships.
• How small things, like forgetting milk, can feel exponentially bigger after betrayal.
• Practical steps for rebuilding trust with wisdom and faith.

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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It! In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roeser dive into how feminine energy can be a powerful tool in leadership—whether you're leading at home, work, or in ministry. With biblical insights and practical examples, we'll explore how embracing Christ-centered feminine leadership can help you navigate conflict, build stronger connections, and lead with grace and confidence.

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🎙️ Don’t miss this empowering conversation about stepping into your God-given calling while staying true to your faith and identity. Whether you're facing challenges in marriage or ministry, there's wisdom here for you!

Welcome to What to Say and How to Stay, the podcast dedicated to helping Christian married men and women navigate conflict and build connection for a thriving marriage. 🎙️

In today’s episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner tackle the topic of mental load. From the unspoken expectations in modern marriages to understanding the biological and emotional differences between men and women, we explore how to manage responsibilities and reduce stress in your relationship.

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• Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells
• Free Marriage Assessment

💬 Let us know in the comments: How do you manage the mental load in your marriage?

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In this episode, we're diving into 3 powerful ways to make vulnerability your superpower in challenging conversations. 💬✨

Discover how:

• Vulnerability fosters trust and deeper connections.
• Naming your feelings disarms fear and empowers clarity.
• Embracing God’s truth transforms your heart and relationships.

Plus, learn why vulnerability is not a weakness but a confidence-builder in disguise!

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In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove dive into a challenging but essential topic: dealing with entitlement. We’re exploring what entitlement looks like in adult relationships, how it affects connections, and how to navigate these interactions effectively.

Are you in a relationship with someone who acts like the world owes them? Or maybe you're finding entitlement tendencies closer than you’d like? Let’s talk about what causes entitlement and why it’s so common today, from low standards in culture to self-focused attitudes. We'll discuss practical steps to influence these situations from a place of strength and character, including staying true to biblical principles that promote unity and understanding.

Join us as we tackle these tough questions, reflect on how entitlement and victimitis impact our relationships, and talk about how to approach these issues with humility, resilience, and faith.

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In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner delve into the fascinating topic of adult development and how it impacts your relationships, especially marriage. Just back from an inspiring Strength and Dignity Conference, they’re sharing insights from Dr. Robert Keegan’s Constructive Development Theory (CDT) to help you better understand yourself, your spouse, and how maturity affects relationship dynamics.

Do you ever wonder why conflicts keep surfacing in your marriage? Or feel like you and your partner are on different pages in handling challenges? This episode explores the stages of adult development, from the egocentric self to the socially aware self, and how these stages influence our behaviors, expectations, and emotional responses in relationships.

Plus, download our free PDF, “5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells,” at greaterimpactwives.org to start transforming your interactions today. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, manage conflict better, or deepen your self-awareness, this conversation will provide essential tools to foster a more understanding, compassionate, and mature marriage.

Tune in, reflect, and take your first steps toward a more connected and thriving relationship.