What does healthy masculinity look like in a world of dominance, sadism, and polyamory?

In this episode, Melbourne-based kinkster Biker Bear shares his journey through power, pleasure, and queer identity. We discuss:

• The Key Elements of Healthy Masculinity
• Electrical play as erotic connection
• Why dominance isn’t control — it’s presence
• Sadism as serious identity
• A lived critique of toxic masculinity
• and more!

Research Article: Rethinking Kink: Sadomasochism as Serious Leisure

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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