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I have been feeling a bit reflective this week as I turn 29 today. So decided to take some time out and write down some of the greatest lessons.. I've learnt in the last 29 years.
 
I’ve had the opportunity to travel and interview some amazing people over the years. As the years go by... I'm still a strong believer that everything happens for a reason. And for that “perseverance” is truly valued regardless of the outcome.

The fact is that as the sun goes up everyday, I’m grateful to be alive, at the end of day the realisation that sometimes it’s better to have a short life with the things you like doing rather then a long life spent in a miserable way as Alan watts would say -  Here are 29 lessons i've learnt over 29 years on this planet.
 
29 Lessons, in 29 years. 

1. 1. Love always wins, love as much as you possibly can every single day. 
   2. Your relationships, circles and friends are the most important factor of wellbeing - get it this. 
   3. Do whatever you want to do, but stay patient. Work 10 decades. 
   4. Don’t ever make someone feel insignificant or inadequate
   5. Always write back, or call back, or text back - Check in on your mates. 
   6. Give back when you can & have the opportunity - Giving someone your time is the most important.  
   7. Be present (still failing at this lol) Love the process. Process the love
   8. Stay healthy, both in body and in spirit. We need to realise there is connection with lifestyle and outcome. 
   9. Read everything, Read what you are not interested about. 
   10. Find something you are passionate about. If you can’t do what you want. Do what you can. 
   11. If it feels morally wrong, it is.
   12. Listen more, speak less. 
   13. Ask more questions
   14. Take the risk or lose the chance. 
   15. Take notes, write or Journal. Will help you remember who you are on the days you feel like giving up
   16. Do not criticise yourself for things you did in the past
   17. Be honest, don’t lie and stay true to your intentions. (Your ego will challenge you in this) 
   18. Put yourself out there, even when you’re scared -If you really wanna taste life, swim into the unknown
   19. Let go of people who aren't ready to love you yet! This is the hardest thing you'll have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing: stop giving your love to those who aren't ready to love you yet.
   20. The greatest gift you get to give the world is to be yourself fully. 
   21. Have the courage to be disliked. 
   22. Forgive quickly
   23. If you only have “love” for you own race, then you only leaving space to ”discriminate
   24. It’s You vs You. 
   25. Happiness is earned, not deserved
   26. You never truly fail, unless you give up! 
   27. Money is a good thing, it gives you options. 
   28. Don’t try to change the world just change yourself. 
   29. Ju

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