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28. Are you afraid to ask questions on dates?
You can and should be asking questions when you’re dating.
You cannot afford to assume anything.
If you’re looking for a committed relationship, you need to find out if guys are on the same page on the very first date.
Here’s why:
You’ll never care less than you will then
Neither will he, so he’s much more likely to tell you the truth
As awkward as it may feel, it will never be easier to ask than it is on the first date
It’s great practice for communicating with him and other men
He will respect you for asking and know that you’re not a woman to be trifled with
So take a deep breath, lean in and say something like “So, you’ve been divorced, do you still believe in the dream?” or “What kind of relationship are you looking for right now?” or “What made you decide to date right now?”
Any of these will get the ball rolling and men will tell you the truth. Your job is to listen, lean in and believe them. They will tell you everything you need to know.
It’s a crazy world out there and you can’t count on men to bring these things up or to want the same things as you.
You simply must have your own back and ask the questions you need the answers to. No one else can do this for you.
This is also great practice for those awkward conversations that are part of getting into and being in a relationship. There’s no escape from these things, but they do get easier with practice.
When you practice communicating with men and asking questions, you’re developing relationship skills that will serve you well for the rest of your life.
You can do this!
I have a great free resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
I just created a brand new package to help you write an amazing dating profile! If you’d like to check it out, click here.
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You can and should be asking questions when you’re dating.
You cannot afford to assume anything.
If you’re looking for a committed relationship, you need to find out if guys are on the same page on the very first date.
Here’s why:
You’ll never care less than you will then
Neither will he, so he’s much more likely to tell you the truth
As awkward as it may feel, it will never be easier to ask than it is on the first date
It’s great practice for communicating with him and other men
He will respect you for asking and know that you’re not a woman to be trifled with
So take a deep breath, lean in and say something like “So, you’ve been divorced, do you still believe in the dream?” or “What kind of relationship are you looking for right now?” or “What made you decide to date right now?”
Any of these will get the ball rolling and men will tell you the truth. Your job is to listen, lean in and believe them. They will tell you everything you need to know.
It’s a crazy world out there and you can’t count on men to bring these things up or to want the same things as you.
You simply must have your own back and ask the questions you need the answers to. No one else can do this for you.
This is also great practice for those awkward conversations that are part of getting into and being in a relationship. There’s no escape from these things, but they do get easier with practice.
When you practice communicating with men and asking questions, you’re developing relationship skills that will serve you well for the rest of your life.
You can do this!
I have a great free resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
I just created a brand new package to help you write an amazing dating profile! If you’d like to check it out, click here.