The Niall Boylan Podcast (They Told Me To Shut Up)

#285 Meeting My Father Before It's Too Late


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In this episode, Niall discusses the emotional dilemma of whether the truth about a secret child should always be revealed, no matter the consequences. The conversation stems from an email sent in by a listener in her mid-30s, who recently discovered the identity of her biological father through a DNA website. Her father, now in his 80s and a well-known businessman, has no idea she exists. The listener is torn about whether to reach out before it's too late, as his wife has passed, but his children have previously blocked her attempts at contact.

Callers weigh in on both sides. Some believe it’s best to leave the past alone, especially given the father’s age and the potential for emotional upheaval. They argue that opening this door could cause unnecessary pain and disruption, especially since the daughter has already been blocked once. It might not go as hoped, and it could bring more harm than closure.

On the other hand, others feel the father has a right to know about his daughter, and she deserves the chance to meet him. They suggest that while the situation may be difficult, it’s better to take the opportunity now rather than live with regret. Even if the father is shocked, the chance for connection and closure might outweigh the risks.

Niall reflects on the importance of balancing personal desires with potential consequences. The decision is deeply personal, but listeners are reminded that time is of the essence in situations like this. Only the listener can decide what feels right for her future.

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