Welcome back, y’all! In this heartfelt and raw episode, Ashley Hydrick dives deep into the connection between suppressed trauma and its impact on lesbian dating and relationships. Drawing from her personal experiences and insights from Mel Robbins' Let Them Theory, Ashley explores how unlearning unhealthy patterns can transform your love life and deepen connections.

From growing up in the conservative South to navigating conflict in adult relationships, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and practical advice for healing and growth. Plus, Ashley shares her thoughts on embracing therapy, learning to manage triggers, and the importance of not taking things personally.

Grab your mint tea, settle in, and join the conversation as we unpack the layers of suppressed trauma, dating fears, and finding our voice in love and life.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro & Life Updates: LA Wildfires and MLK Day Reflections

07:35 - The Impact of Suppressed Trauma on Lesbian Dating

15:45 - Breaking Unhealthy Patterns in Relationships

22:10 - Insights from Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins

29:50 - The Power of Conflict in Deepening Relationships

36:20 - Tools for Managing Triggers and Growing Together

Resources Mentioned:

Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins: https://a.co/d/3J0A3Zh

Other podcast with Ashley + life coach Dena:

Life In The New Normal Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@UCD3mlpWUq3Fg02FLVvmh6JQ

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