Love is NOT all that matters!

You can love a lot of people and that doesn’t mean they are good for you or that you should stay with them.

I see women stay with men who are terrible for them all the time because they love them.

Men who:

Don’t make them a priority

Only see them once a week or less

Are ambivalent about them

Refuse to commit to them

Insist on seeing other women or leave their profiles up

Show no intention of ever sharing their relationship goals

Never declare their feelings

These aren’t necessarily bad men, but they are bad for you if you are not getting what you want!

If you’re hoping he’ll come around if you hang in there long enough, I suggest you take a hard look at what’s really going on.

You are abandoning yourself and your needs in the hopes that he will pay you back for all the time you’ve spent waiting for him to step up. 

This is a terrible idea. No man wants to pay a debt he had no intention of racking up.

The best choice is to love yourself best!

Something I ask my clients a lot is “what advice would you give your daughter or a beloved niece if she were in your situation?”

That usually clears things up.

Take some time to think about the kind of relationship you really want and then commit to making that happen for yourself. 

You absolutely can do this.

When you find a man who is amazing and treats you well, you’ll love him and you’ll never give another thought to all the guys who were ambivalent about you.

From now on, resolve to love only those men who love you enough to treat you well and give you what you want.

And always love yourself more than you love them.

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