If you don’t want to do something. Why are you doing it? I’m asking that because It’s really helpful to know your why. And if you decide to do something you don’t want to do, is there a way you can line up with that decision and actually embrace it and find a way to enjoy it?

We live in a world that completely revolves around us. My world revolves around me and your world revolves around you. But there’s a little kink here because I live in a world where there are other people that live there too. And that’s where it gets messy. Doesn’t it? Because sometimes we end up doing things that someone else would like for us to do even though we don’t want to.

Ultimately though. We do choose. And when we choose, it’s really helpful to get behind that choice. There’s no use resenting or blaming or guilting because we had a choice. We love having other people in our lives but We all have to remember that every single decision We make is our own responsibility. No one can make me do something I don’t want to do and when I do it, that’s my choice and I’ve learned to find someway to line up with it. You have to focus more on why you’re doing it instead of why you didn’t want to in the first place.