In Episode 662, Heidi shares the subtle habit that was quietly draining her energy — even on days full of things she actually loved. The words “I have to.”
She noticed herself saying “I have to go to this client appointment,” “I have to record my podcast,” “I have to walk the dogs”… and each time her shoulders tensed and her mood dropped just a little. The moment she flipped it to “I get to,” everything shifted. Same tasks, completely different energy.
This simple 3-word swap turns obligation into gratitude, pressure into presence, and quietly trains your brain to experience life as a series of privileges instead of chores. Heidi walks you through how she caught herself in the moment, the immediate body-mind difference she felt, and how the shift has created real momentum in her days.
Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson uses the exact same reframe — and now you can too.
💫 Challenge: For the next week, catch yourself saying “I have to” (out loud or in your head) and flip it to “I get to.” Say it out loud if you can. Notice how your body and your whole day respond.
If you’re ready to stop feeling like life is happening to you and start feeling like you’re choosing it, this short, powerful episode is your new daily practice.
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