My Journey from Self-Destruction to Sexual Freedom: The Rise of the Multi-Orgasmic Man

Picture me at 23, embarking on a journey that would forever change my life. I was in a polygamous relationship with a remarkable woman, 48 years old ( older than my mom ). Despite her generosity and openness, I betrayed her trust and cheated on her. She had only one rule: communicating with her before switching primary partners. Yet, I failed to honor that commitment. Internally, I was chained by a fear of commitment, believing that everyone was unfaithful and that emotional investment was terrible.

As a result, I rarely expressed my genuine emotions, which only fueled my need to move from one woman to the next every few months. Externally, I sought validation by boasting how many women I f!cked, even though I felt an overwhelming emptiness.

As a fitness and life coach, I preached the values of honesty and effective communication. Yet, paradoxically, I struggled to embody these principles in my personal life. At my lowest point, I betrayed my second real girlfriend, who I had been with for a year and a half. I was on the brink of meeting a porn star for a sexual meet-up and caving into emotional infidelity with numerous flirtations.

When she finally left me, I was forced to confront the true reflection in the mirror. I was no longer proud of the person I had become, and I vowed never to hurt a woman in such a painful way again. This pivotal moment has led me on a path of celibacy and introspection.

For six months, I abstained from sex, dedicating my energy to healing my sexual wounds. I invested in spiritual teachers, healers, and relationship coaches, desperate to mend the broken pieces within me. The deepest wound emerged during this journey—the painful memory of being sexually abused at the tender age of six. Confronting this trauma head-on, I engaged in an inner child workshop that forever changed the trajectory of my life and relationships. On top of that, I embarked on a year-long mental toughness program called Live Hard.

It tested my resilience and pushed my limits, but through the struggle, I found success. I emerged from this transformative experience as a certified value-driven leadership coach, deeply aligned with my core values. Then, with three years of dedicated practice in sexual kung fu, I began weaving together the realms of fitness, emotional intelligence, and sexual health and wellness. And so, the Rise of the Multi-Orgasmic Man was born—a program rooted in the mission to empower men to unlock their full potential by embracing emotional intelligence, resilience, and sexual freedom. Our vision is to create a world where men can cultivate healthy, aligned relationships and contribute to reducing sexual violence, trauma, and abuse.

We firmly believe nurturing better men can pave the way for a better world—one man at a time. Today, I am writing to you as a testament to the power of personal growth and transformation. I have dedicated myself to helping men break free from the chains of limiting beliefs, shame, and destructive patterns, guiding them toward a life of sexual liberation, self-empowerment, and holistic well-being.

If my journey resonates with you or someone you know, I invite you to join me in this transformative quest. Together, we can shatter the barriers that hinder our potential.